What is Tantric Sex?

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Watch our video interview above and listen to today’s radio show below where we interview Tantra Expert, Dawn Cartwright, about what Tantra REALLY is and how it can enhance your intimate relationships.   Listen and SUBSCRIBE to our iTunes podcast here:

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Affirmative Therapy with Transgender and Gender Nonconforming Clients

Presentation on Affirmative Therapy with Transgender and Gender Nonconforming Clients at the LA-CAMFT Networking Brunch

Yesterday, I gave a presentation on Affirmative Therapy with Transgender and Gender Nonconforming (TGNC) Clients to my colleagues at the LA CAMFT Networking Brunch that covered the following topics: Basics Differences between sex, gender and sexuality Essential terminology Transphobia What it is How it affects TGNC clients Intersectionality What it is How transphobia intersects with other forms of oppression

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The James and Heather Show

Offering sex, love & relationship advice Check out all our radio/podcast and video episodes here: The James & Heather Show Website   SUBSCRIBE to our iTunes Podcast here:  

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Annual Esalen Workshop

Offering mindfulness workshops for gay men For the past 9 years, I’ve co-created annual weekend workshops for gay men at the Esalen Institute on how to thrive in our lives using mindfulness practices.

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Social Activism

Advancing therapy for LGBTQ clients From Yahoo News (April 9, 2015): “A few months after a transgender teenager took her own life after undergoing religious conversion therapy, the White House issued a statement condemning the use of conversion therapy on youth. Yahoo News and Finance Anchor, Bianna Golodrgya, speaks to therapist, James Guay, about his

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Obama Supports Banning Conversion Therapy

On April 9, 2015, the White House issued statements condemning the use of conversion therapy on LGBTQ youth. Yahoo News and Finance Anchor, Bianna Golodrgya, interviewed me about my personal experiences being put through gay conversion therapy — also known as ex-gay therapy, reparative therapy, sexual orientation change efforts (SOCE). Here is US President Barack Obama’s full

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Sex & Relationships: How To Increase Sexual Intimacy

Sexual intimacy is not always an easy thing to create, let alone maintain in relationships. To help you out, I’ve created a 21-Day Challenge to enhance your sexual relationships: Greater Sexual Intimacy in 21 Days (Clickable PDF) Creating greater sexual intimacy isn’t just about how you have sex, it actually involves getting to know ourselves

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Dating Tips for Single Gay Dads

Dating can be a difficult territory to navigate, let alone as a single parent. There can also be special considerations for single gay dads. There are many different situations for single parents, depending on where you live, who your ex is, how much time you get with your child or children, their ages. So these

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Coming Out for Gay Dads

In this video, I talk about ways Gay Dads can come out of the closet and into the world with greater authenticity, compassion and aliveness. Whether you’re considering coming out to your children, partner or someone else, this process can be both liberating and anxiety provoking. While there’s no one “right way” of coming out

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